I detest political
debate.
Actually, I don’t
mind genuine debate – considered discussion of the salient points on a
particular topic. But that is rarely what we get; we get rhetoric.
So to be more
precise, I detest political rhetoric.
And by the way, I’m
not particularly talking about the candidates. I’m talking about the rest of us.
And, I’m not talking about one party more than any other; there is abominable
behavior on both sides.
Someone reading
thus far is probably thinking – “Doesn’t it sort of have to be that way? You
said it yourself…both sides. We are taking political sides, and by the nature
of debate it has to be somewhat divisive doesn’t it?”
My answer – No! No
it doesn’t! It is possible to disagree without concluding my opponent is either
a villain or a fool.
It’s possible, but
perhaps not easy; it takes effort.
Life experiences
have taught me certain things and formed my beliefs. I want to stress that – MY
BELIEFS. Believe it or not – I believe my beliefs. People mistakenly think politics
is about facts. It isn’t – It’s about beliefs.
Any proponent of
any political position can cite facts. There are two sides to any argument,
cliché I know – but true. By definition there has to be, or there wouldn’t be
an argument. Pick a political topic. I can cite my favorite facts that support
my belief. And since I am a good and intelligent person, all good and
intelligent people will have to agree with me. If they don’t, they are either not
so good or not so intelligent.
But facts are not the
end of the matter. First of all, no one has all the facts. Secondly, facts only
lead us to a conclusion. There are facts that support my position, but if I am
honest, there are others that don’t.
There are some
facts that I sort of ignore because, either they didn’t find their way to me as
early or as forcibly as others, or I just don’t find them convenient. But they
are still out there, and someone else DID discover them earlier, and they DO fit
their life experiences and they DO coincide with their beliefs, and they ARE
facts after all – and since they don’t persuade me, I must be stupid or evil or
both.
And – we hate each
other.
We post our
favorite facts on Facebook (nice bit alliteration that), and our like-minded
friends cheer wildly, congratulating each other for settling the matter so decisively.
But NO ONE from the
opposing camp EVER reads our golden fact, considers its perfect logic, and
renounces their evil, stupid position forever. Not one, not ever.
And – we hate each
other a little more.
Don’t get me wrong.
I have political convictions. I believe there is right and wrong, or at least
better or worse on most issues, but it is preposterous to believe that there is
absolutely no valid argument on the other side. There are people on the other
side. They don’t just spin a wheel and decide to be difficult. They believe
their beliefs.
Sometimes they
frustrate me. I don’t understand how or why they believe what they believe, but
– and this is my main point – I try to believe they must have reasons that seem
good and logical to them. When I am successful in believing that, it’s much
easier not to hate them.
The hatred is what
concerns me. It’s why I detest political rhetoric; it fosters hatred.
Because we don’t
debate; we spout rhetoric intended to incite passion, but not reason.
Passion is good,
but it should be tempered with reason. John Adams said: Reason holds the helm, but the passions are the gales.
In other words, you
can’t get anywhere without the gales, but anywhere is where you’ll get without
manning the helm. In yet other words, reason without passion is impotent;
passion without reason is reckless.
Benjamin Franklin
said: United we stand, divided we fall. He was a pretty wise old sage; he
paraphrased that from the Bible: A house divided against itself cannot stand.
I’m not excited
about any of my choices for President, but I’ll tell you very honestly – I’m
not terribly worried about them either. Presidents come and Presidents go, but
if we don’t stop hating each other, it won’t matter who is President.
I may be preaching
to the choir. This is a book blog and I’m just naïve enough to believe that
“readers” might be a bit above the bar. Experience seems to validate this as
I’ve seen very little political discussion on bookish blogs. Thank Goodness!
My apologies for
this one-time, non-partisan political post. Hopefully it will be my one and
only.
I’ll be glad when
the election is over.
Thanks for writing this. Your thoughts echo my own.
ReplyDeleteThanks Faith!
DeleteI feel the same way. Believe it or not, there are intelligent, caring, wonderful people on both sides. There are also mean, ignorant, or simply misled people on both sides. I wish there were more unbiased, trustworthy news sources out there!
ReplyDeleteYep...thanks!
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